- Years in practice
- 13
- Registration
- BACP
- Languages
- English
- Focus
- Stress, Anxiety
- Focus
- Relationship issues
- Focus
- Grief
About Alan
Alan Cox is a counsellor with 13 years of experience who helps people facing stress, anxiety, grief and a wide range of life difficulties. He is based in the United Kingdom and works with issues such as depression, addictions, relationship concerns, parenting and problems with sleep or eating.
He holds a BA (Hons) in Counselling and is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy - BACP. Alan began counselling in the voluntary sector in 2008 and opened a independent practice in 2012.
Background and approach
He also contributes to the bereavement sector by providing supervision to other counsellors. Before training in counselling he gained experience in coaching, training and people development in workplace settings. He speaks from personal experience of having had therapy, so he understands what it feels like to be in the client chair.
That perspective shapes his practical, down-to-earth style. Sessions focus on listening carefully, reflecting what he hears and helping people find their own next steps. Alan draws on different therapy approaches to match the person in front of him.
He pays attention to the immediate problem and the wider factors that keep it going. The aim is to help people understand the causes, reduce distress and work toward realistic change. People can expect a non-judgemental, calm space to talk through whatever is worrying them.
Sessions tend to be practical and collaborative, helping clients decide sensible actions that fit their situation and values.
What Alan works with
Everything Alan lists, in their own terms. Parenting is the reason this directory exists; the rest shows what else Alan helps people with.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Grief
- Anger management
- Depression
- Addictions
- Trauma and abuse
- Intimacy-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Sleeping disorders
- Parenting issues
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Bipolar disorder
- Coping with life changes
- Coaching
- ADHD
- Avoidant personality
- Body image
- Communication problems
- Dissociation
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Guilt and shame
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Workplace issues
Approaches Alan lists
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
Approaches that suit online therapy
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify what matters to them and take small actions that align with those values. It is useful for anxiety, stress and when people feel stuck and unsure what matters most. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings and behaviours interact and teaches practical ways to change unhelpful patterns. It is often used for anxiety, panic and low mood. Client-Centred Therapy focuses on empathic listening and creating a non-judgemental space so people can explore feelings and find their own solutions; it supports many kinds of concerns including grief and relationship strain.Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss what feels most helpful and try different techniques together. Decisions about focus and method are made collaboratively, guided by the person’s goals and what works in early sessions.
Online sessions offer practical flexibility. Video calls mirror in-person sessions when face-to-face contact matters. Phone sessions use less bandwidth and can be easier on days when being on camera is tiring. Live chat and text-based messaging suit short check-ins, quick reflections between meetings or when a written approach feels more comfortable. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, parenting and busy lives.
Questions people ask about Alan
What kinds of problems can be addressed?
Alan works with stress, anxiety and depression as well as grief, anger and addictions. He also helps with parenting concerns, relationship issues, sleep and eating problems and career-related stress.
What is his counselling style like?
Alan uses a straightforward, practical style that emphasises listening and reflection. He helps people identify causes and small steps they can take between sessions.
How much experience does he have?
He has been counselling since 2008 and opened a independent practice in 2012, giving him 13 years of experience working in both voluntary and personal settings.
What credentials and where is he based?
Alan holds a BA (Hons) in Counselling and is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). He is based in the United Kingdom.
Which languages are supported and can international clients join?
Sessions are offered in English and Alan accepts international clients.
What session formats are available?
He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different schedules and preferences.
How are sessions charged?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided via a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin therapy with him?
To start, use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.
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