- Years in practice
- 4
- Registration
- BACP
- Languages
- English
- Focus
- Relationship issues
- Focus
- Grief
- Focus
- Depression
About Femi
Femi Carty offers calm, practical support for people facing relationship strain, parenting challenges, grief and anxiety. He explains things simply and helps clients focus on small, useful changes. Sessions are aimed at making day-to-day life easier and more manageable.
He uses a mix of counselling methods and adapts them to each person. Femi listens without judgement and helps people notice patterns in their thoughts, feelings and behaviour. Together they work out steps to reduce stress, tackle difficult emotions and improve communication.
Background and approach
Femi is an integrative counsellor with four years' experience. He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. He offers sessions in English and accepts clients in the United Kingdom and internationally.
Practical arrangements are discussed in the first appointment. That first meeting includes an assessment and a plan for future sessions tailored to the client's goals. Telephone and video appointments are available at different times to fit work and family life.
His areas of focus include depression, coping with life changes, trauma and abuse, addictions, self-esteem and compassion fatigue. He also supports people dealing with attachment concerns, blended family challenges, body image and intimate issues related to kink and alternative sex culture. Femi aims to create an atmosphere where people can speak openly and take steady steps toward feeling more in control.
He helps clients set realistic goals and find practical strategies they can use between sessions.
What Femi works with
Everything Femi lists, in their own terms. Parenting is the reason this directory exists; the rest shows what else Femi helps people with.
- Relationship issues
- Grief
- Parenting issues
- Depression
- Coping with life changes
- Stress, Anxiety
- Addictions
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Intimacy-related issues
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Coaching
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Codependency
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Emptiness
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Traumatic brain injury
- Visually impaired
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Femi lists
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Jungian Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
How these approaches translate to online therapy
Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early bonds shape current relationships. It helps people understand patterns of closeness and distance and is useful for relationship difficulties and parenting concerns.Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening without judgement. The counsellor reflects and supports a person's own pace of change, which can help with low self-esteem, grief and stress.
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT, helps people spot unhelpful thinking and test new ways of responding. It is practical and works well for anxiety, depression and coping with life changes.
Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will discuss options and tailor methods to match goals, needs and personal preferences. This is a collaborative process that can change as progress is made.
Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone, live chat or text-based messaging. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when visual cues help. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and messaging suit brief updates, ongoing support and times when typing feels more comfortable. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, parenting and travel commitments, and to keep momentum between appointments.
Questions people ask about Femi
What kinds of problems does Femi focus on?
Femi supports a wide range of concerns including parenting, relationship problems, grief, anxiety, depression and stress. He also works with issues like addictions, trauma and intimacy-related concerns.
How would you describe his therapeutic style?
He uses an integrative, client-centred approach that adapts to each person. Sessions involve listening, exploring patterns and developing practical steps to manage feelings and behaviour.
What is his professional background?
He has four years of counselling experience and an integrative practice that combines several therapeutic approaches to meet individual needs.
What credentials and location are listed for him?
He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and is based in the United Kingdom.
Which languages and international options are available?
Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.
What formats are used for sessions?
He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different schedules and preferences.
How are sessions priced?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button and completing a short matching questionnaire. After that you can schedule sessions based on the therapist's listed times.
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